It was an unspeakable tragedy. The NFL player fatally shot his girlfriend early Saturday morning, then drove to Arrowhead Stadium, a place he accomplished so much as a player. He thanked his coaches for all they done for him, and then before their shocked eyes, he killed himself."This is a horrible loss of life and we need to focus on the fact that it another victim of domestic violence," said Deborah DeBare, Executive Director of the Rhode Island Coalition Against Domestic Violence.DeBare says as many as 4 victims of domestic violence are killed by their partners each day."People look on the outside and it looks perfectly fine and behind closed doors it a whole different scenario," said DeBare.After Sundays game, which the Chief won, questions continued to swirl about what set off belcher."If they not totally honest with you about their issues or their problems then you cannot give them the correct help," said Kansas City Chiefs coach Romeo Crennel.&q